Tuesday, June 29, 2010

25 years

1985 was the year I was married!

Wow, now do you marry someone due to how much to love them and can't spend your life without them? or do you hang on every breath they say.

NO!

Marriage is the toughest thing I've ever done, they say married people are happier than others, maybe so

But I now have been married 1/2 of my life!

But I do love and care about this woman I called my wife.

and this is why today we will celebrate!

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

POM camp, VBS and I'm on the road

The drama, the Drama, the Drama in living in a house of 3 women you get hormons but if I say it is hormonal that would be sexes, so I will call it Drama. Women are just a total different animal as when guys het mad, or even fight it is a few words and poof it is over.

Women or girls pout they hold a grudge and never ever forget. This doesn't matter if you are 10 or 50+

Example, it is 10:15 PM I'm in bed, I'm ready to do some sleeping. Curfew on the phone for the teenager is 11:15 on her cell phone. I know she is going to POM camp in the morning so if she stays up late texting then it will only effect her. I fluff my pillow and call it a good night, but NO the Older woman in the house wants to make sure the teenager does the right thing. I say I'm not going to stay up, so she huff's upstairs to do what I don't know as I know the teenager is not going to give the phone up till the 11:15 moment at the earliest. Does she stay up? Does she come back with the phone?

Don't know as I was asleep!

Refreshed

Hoonia!

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Energy

Changing jobs have brought a new step in myself, or it has kicked my butt again and that feeling feels good. Now like working out I'm finding muscles I havn't used in years and a few fears I hadn't felt in a long time.

It is good to be somewhat back

Alan

Monday, June 7, 2010

The boy is gone, and I guess I'm feeling better?

15 year old love, or infacauation!

The boy is gone, and I guess it was nice? Who knows but the drama was huge and I finally told  him to Man up as it was over and stop calling my house.

The wife told me to play and talk nice which I did the best I could but it was time for him to go and now there is a Trey or what I will call "THE BOY II" Who knows and life begins again

Hoonia!

Saturday, June 5, 2010

Sometimes you say the wrong things

Being  married 24 years, 11 months and a few days you would think saying something wrong would not happen, BUT NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

Today I was about to take the Big Car when I noticed  the part of  the back end of the car was broken! With a ton  of help from a neighbor we were able to fix the car but then we  noticed the garage door had a nick  in the wood, and you can see how this story is headed.

But being a not very smart husband, I walk in and say WHEN DID YOU WRECK THE CAR? Now  this is where the stupidity set in.

Some  advice never accuse your wife she wrecked the car if you don't see her back into the door, knock down the house, run over the dog and you have 3 witnesses and it is on video.

Becasue having the evidence that there is house paint on the house, there is a chip out of the wood, which matches up where the paint  is on the car, and you can see how it happened. Plus she is the only one who drives the car,  but I need to find someone else to blame as I'm sure she did not do it!!!!

Hoonia

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Back on Track

I took a few days off from the blog as I quit my job!!!
I've used words like Resigned, left, needed a change in venue, But I  and all the fear I had in leaving was one of the silliest things I've ever had, as the fear I had was nothing and it held me back for no reason.

I am bolder today than I ever have been and feel a bit of being alive.

my life has changed for the good

Hoonia