Friends & divorce

Last night I had a beer with a friend who is going thru a divorce! I've learned a long time ago what I see on the street is not always what goes on behind close doors.

I try not to pass judgement, but I'm a better listener.

I look out for the kids and if they are sane and normal once this is over than it is OK.

Life is hard, and we all have are crap to deal with as no one is perfect, and the people these people will meet in the futer there is crap there also.

I wish them the best and as I say "After all the great SEX you have, sooner or later you have to talk to them!"  Good advice

Hoonia

Sometimes I'm just an Ass

When parents get tired, and when kids push buttons, tempers flair, and sometimes the adult turns into the spoiled brat child and becomes an Ass.

I won't go into details, but I'm the Ass

(Who did just apoligize)

Hoonia

Lost Items

Why is it clothes goes away, why is there ashoe on the road? What happened to the other shoe? The sock in the dryer? What happened to the other sock?

I think it is due to Children, I think children loose these items, as I've looked for shorts, I've looked for sweats and I've looked for POM pants, and today we couldn't find a shoe!

Children is the awnser

Hoonia

What is there to talk about today?

Life if funny, I have two girls and a dog which is all female, and when everything is in hormonal balance the house is full of laughter and pure sillyness which is the best, but get this balance out just one bit, life can go to hell in a basket.

Things are good at the moment as we prepare for Tryouts, and the littlest one does her math which she is finally getting.

God I love them both (most of the time!!!)

Hoonia

Working with your Father

My Dad is 83 year of age, now don't let the number worry you as at 83 he is just as sharp as he was in his 40's and he gets around just as well. But working with a 83 year old person it sometimes you have to laugh or you will pull your hair out.

Saturday last I was needing to borrow a tool of his. (FIRST MISTAKE!) As I took the tool I noticed it didn't work as well as I thought it should and after looking at it, I knew it was not right.

Becasue I know my Father so well I took it back to him so if anything went wrong he knew it then and not later. (Been there done that!) As my father was trying to adjust this tool, I kept telling him that the screw was stripped and we needed to change out the screw. 45 min later and the tool was now totally taken apart and all over his truck bed he say's "Here is the problem this screw is stripped and we need the change it out!!!

I guess at 50 you are still the BOY!

Hoonia

What the Hell happened

1 trillion Dollars, I don't even know if I know how many zero's that is, but that is what Congress passed on to us, as American's is 1 Trillion Dollars, and I heard a number as it will save a 100 Billion Dollars, which is what spend a Trillion to save a Billion, isn't that like 10%?


It does not sound right to me?

I'm really trying to not get negative in my thoughts but it is something to worry about, as Big Goverment is not good for Small Business.

Hoonia

Saint Paddy's Day

The wearing of the GREEN, the drinking the GREEN beer, the pinching of the people who do not wear Green!

St. Paddy's day has always been a fun day as long as I have remembered other than the one year the only green shirt I had was about 2 sizes to small, and my Mother still wanted me to wear the shirt.

Things you remember in life!

Hoonia

Spring Break

Back in my Day, what a crock that statment is!!!!

Back in my day, well bucko My Day has long gone. But what about Spring Break?

In collage we went crazy and went to either Florida or South Texas, but now Seniors in High school do the same? Not real comfortable about that trip, and I guess the collage trip is fine, I think? My day is coming!!!

But I notice family's take off on a vacation and they go. We were going to do the same but I didn't plan ahead and could not find anything, so here we sit making up things for our kids to do.

But what is wrong with that?

My kids and others always want to be entertained, why can't we just let them go outside with a stick and play outside?

Spring Break is always fun, but I don't understand why everyone feels like they have to take a vacation?

Maybe I'm wired different???

Hoonia

Who knows?

Being a Father is not easy, you are a cop most of the time, you are a loving person some of the time, and if you have fun and laugh and do your thing then you are WEIRD!

Being on time and doing the right thing is a requirment in our house, (as it should be in everyone's house!) But having children puts a dim light on being on time, and doing the right thing.

Oh no it isn't that we don't try to do the right thing, but the herding of cats would be easier!

My oldest will have to curtail her conversations with the BOY, as I can't afford the minuets she puts on her cell phone.

Life is hard and next week is spring break and I need to figure a place to go for the family

till then

Hoonia

Her Birthday

Yesterday was my daughters 15th birthday, and in those 15 years she has gone from hanging out with DAD to looking fantastic when she puts on some make up and a dress!

I'm just not ready!

There is a song by someone and the line is She is about to leave and there is no room in that car even if she asked me to come! And this will come sooner than I ever want to happen.

Yes we fight, we push each others buttons but she is really the greatest kid and for her to like a boy and ignore her family just kills me inside.

So I work and come home to see her texting and talking to friends, Dad Worries about grades and friends.

But it all seems to work out OK, for now!!!!

My oldest just turned 15!

Hoonia

Random Thoughts

Various thoughts are running thru my mind today as it was a very wierd and wonderful weekend!

My oldest just turned 15, and this bothers me more than I will ever let her know!
and the BOY keeps hanging around, and I need to get her to move on with this as she doesn't need to sit home and play barbies, but he just rubs me the wrong way as he puts his hand on her knee! I might put my hand on HIS knee and see how he feels about this?

More thoughts why does a restroom have the toliet seat sitting in the corner of the room why the potty itself is open? Lets mark this up to they wish they had never done that!!!!

Why is it when you have 15 - 15 year old girls over for dinner and to celebrate, I have to keep reminding myself, THEY ARE ONLY 15!!!!

Who's idea was it to start the day with the pretty blond on a week full of interviews? I feel sorry for the next person!!!!

Thoughts

Hoonia

Sore Throat

This last week I have not written in my blog due to a Sore Throat!

But now that I have been at home for the last few days and we knew there was nothing on TV in the first place, but I'm here to confirm there is NOTHING on TV and the more you watch it the more you lay there saying I have to get back to WORK

So I'm back

Hoonia

The Boy Returns

Just as I thought it was safe to go back to a normal life, the BOY shows up at my house again. He seems to be a pretty nice kid, but he is still a kid I watch like a hawk.

We went to the batting cages as he plays baseball and he did pretty well, my daughter go in there also and she did very well since she had not seen a softball in awhile. And for myself I got in the cage and hit maybe 3 out of 10 and those 3 might of gotten out of the infield but I doubt it!

My daughters birthday is a week from today and her comment was she wanted to spend the day with the BOY!

What about Dad?

Hoonia